"We are on the move and no wave of racism can stop us. We are on the move now. The burning of our churches will not deter us. The bombing of our homes will not dissuade us. We are on the move now. The beating and killing of our clergymen and young people will not divert us. We are on the move now. The wanton release of their known murderers would not discourage us. We are on the move now. Like an idea whose time has come, not even the marching of mighty armies can halt us. We are moving to the land of freedom." -Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. March 25th, 1965 Address at the Conclusion of the Selma to Montgomery March
Good grief! In comparison to what King is describing, our circumstances are incredibly mild. If we can have a tenth of the resolve, commitment and determination of the gritty souls of the African American Civil Rights Movement, I have perfect confidence marriage equality will be in the Peach State in just a matter of two years. At this point, the estimated time of arrival is late June 2016. This is the reason I urged in our last newsletter that if you were waiting on Georgia, NOW is the time to get ready. Let alone the time it takes to build a relationship to the point of marriage ready, for some it takes up two years to plan an epic wedding befitting of the historical moment which is now on the horizon. When you begin acting on your beliefs, walking on your faith, you actually reinforce your beliefs and your faith so strongly that you set off a compounding chain reaction of events and you will witness circumstances from without begin to arrange itself to support that which you believe. I have only to hearken back just two years ago to see what the magic of faith has done. Faith is also contagious, by the way. With this, I attest that faith you will not walk on is no faith at all. If I told you that I was sending you to Bora Bora, Tahiti tomorrow, would you not pack today? Perhaps you will not until I show you the plane tickets, needing to know all the hows before you get to moving. King also said this, "Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the entire staircase, just take the first step." FAITH, GET YOU SOME!
Alas, Georgia's Marriage Ban is facing a class action lawsuit led by Lambda Legal. This process could take up two years to resolve, not to mention what may happen by Supreme Court mandate over this time frame. Coming at it from the legislative arena, Rep. Karla Drenner has previewed repeal proposals beginning in 2015 in the Georgia House of Representative. With the election of Kyle Williams to the State Senate, he has promised the introduction of similar measures to bring down the ban through the State Senate. Even Barack Obama has the "Respect For Marriage Act" moving through congress which once passed, if necessary will replace DOMA entirely. Demonstrating that the psychological warfare has been won, several conservative commentators in Georgia have been urging Georgia Attorney General, Sam Olens to abandon the fight against marriage equality and concede to the forces of love, saying it will cost the state unnecessary millions which will end up as a defeated effort anyway. That just leaves one more arena that has not yet pointed its cannons squarely on GA's Marriage Ban (Section IV of GA Constitution, Title Code 19-3-3.1), The Georgia populace.
This weekend I was invited to be a part of panel discussion alongside Fulton County Commissioner, Joan Garner, Robin Shahar, LGBT liaison to Atlanta Mayor Reed's office, family psychologist, Dr. Susan Barrett and Emory student activist, Conrad Charleston. In this discussion we all agreed that the Legal and the Legislative fight will be heavily impacted and influenced by the general sentiment and attitude among the Georgia populace in regards to this issue. Latest polls report that we are at a split even in this historically bible belt state, while some reporting a slight lead in favor of marriage equality. Those of us who support equality can only be aided and may help to expedite the whole process as much as possible by growing and strengthening our lead and eroding the resistance of our opponents. This whole issue may just come down to what we do on this arena. Be not deluded to the fact that social conservatives are already organizing their base and ramping up their rhetoric of lies, untruths, falsehoods and scare tactics against our beloved community. We must do what we must do to counter this influence. We need to do a lot more of changing hearts and minds by telling our stories and relating with others along the shared human experience of love and family and by hearing heart felt voices of reason from respected celebrities and public persons of influence.
At the same time, there will be some for whom it will be a war of attrition, whereas they will only concede their resistance if the matter is so dramatized to the degree that they will clearly see that justice is their only route to peace of mind. If they're tired of hearing about this issue, that's a good sign, because until we all get what we are owed and entitled to under the US Constitution, we are only going to get louder and more persistent. People have sacrificed everything so that the most vulnerable members of society may have access to these basic rights. This is about Love, Family, Equality and Respect. It would be a disrespect to those soldiers of social justice and to the egalitarian principles of our nation if we did not fight for them in respect to ourselves. It is these stalwarts if exhausted, I believe may end the struggle even sooner than those who are morally supportive of our cause, yet patient and complacent with the injustice and plight currently troubling Georgia's LGBT couples and their families. For some of our kind, drama is their stock and trade, yet we must stir up drama in the right way, in a way that causes people to think, to feel the pain and shame of the injustice and heighten the urgency of the moment to put an end this practice of discrimination. Below is how you may get moving:
Grassroots Activity:
Thursday, May 1st, #MAYDAYGAEQUALITY: "Sonny" & Joyce "Jazzie" Jones-Smith are launching a statewide initiative to take a stand on Marriage Equality in the State of Georgia to encourage the 21,000+ same sex couples living in Georgia to go to their local county courthouse and apply for a marriage license on May 1st, 2014. Learn more about this here: http://www.prlog.org/12304834-sonny-jazzie-of-louddmouthradiocom-launches-mayday-georgia-marriage-equality-initiative.html ; $$ Remember those who said that we'll never raise enough money to pull it off, here's your opportunity to prove them wrong. Many of us who or working tirelessly and passionately for marriage equality are not being paid to do so. We do it because it is the right thing to do, and our conscience would not allow us to do otherwise at such a time as this. However, no war is ever won by a poorly outfitted and poorly equipped army. This couple is needing the funds necessary to get the word out about their movement, "OUR" movement with billboards, radio ads and other means which engage the public at large. Please help them with whatever you are able going to: https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/louddmouthradio-com-mayday-georgia-marriage-equality-campaign $$$
Thursday, May 8th, 7PM- OPERATION: YES, WE DO!- At First Christian Church of Decatur, 601 W. Ponce De Leon Ave, Decatur, GA 30030. 2nd Floor. Recruiting active participants in ongoing public demonstrations to dramatize the injustice of marriage discrimination in the state of Georgia to convict the public conscience that GA's Marriage Ban MUST END! We are asking you to take part in the planning and execution of a strategic series of marches, vigils, rallies and actions of civil disobedience primarily throughout the remainder of 2014. We are needing Gay and Lesbian couples seeking marriage, equality advocates and supportive straight allies. Please invite at least 10 to this movement. Please RSVP here: http://www.facebook.com/events/273288932845220/ and or call 404-492-4197 or 404-604-8124
Tuesday, May 19th 7PM: Alternative Perspectives- Tune into 89.3FM Atlanta or livestream online at http://wrfg.org/howlisten.asp Betty Couvertier's Marriage Equality segment featuring Branden Mattox and special guests this month, Amanda Newkirk Carver, Georgia Marriage Equality petitioner to the Governer. Invite over 5 friends to listen and/or call-in to the show at 404-523-8989. Then discuss afterwards featuring potluck desert (Strawberry Shortcake) and game night, cards, monopoly, charades whatever. Have those 5 friends invite 5 more, and alternate hosting for this show which will occur every 3rd Tuesday of every month @ 7PM. If you wish to publicly host and invite for a listening party, please post your venue at www.facebook.com/LoveUnderFire or e-mail dir.loveunderfire@aol.com
OPERATION: VOICES OF REASON- Now that the end of GA's Marriage Ban has begun, the next phase is to build popular support for marriage equality in Georgia by leading a campaign to encourage Georgia based celebrities and public persons of influence to deliver a Video PSA speaking from their hearts in support of marriage equality in GA to Southerners For The Freedom To Marry, HRC or independently for the use in television ads, billboards and social media sharing. If you know of any Georgia based celebrities or influential public personas you would like to pursue for this cause, please help us research their contact information and post in this group so that we may begin sending them collective requests. To participate, please join facebook group here: http://www.facebook.com/groups/162790130594479/
Join the IDOMARATHON Support Team: Kacey and Chwanda Fierson-Nixon are a Jonesboro couple have been cris-crossing the nation with their 7 children collecting marriage licences to build a moral case against the state of Georgia which nullifies each and every one of them where this couple resides. They have just returned from their second tour and have plans of launching another in the near future with any couple who wishes to be a tag-along. Everyone is welcomed to join the cheer leading squad. They have plans soon on taking to the Western States and could really use all of the moral, spiritual, and financial support you are able to offer them. Like https://www.facebook.com/IDOMARATHON and learn about how to support them and get the word out.
Civic Engagements:
JASON CARTER
With marriage equality coming to the state capitol at the next legislative session, by all means we need to do whatever it takes to get possession of the high ground, which means for us, the Governor's Office. If we want to win equality, we have no other choice other than Jason Carter, and he is not a bad choice, the grandson of former Georgia governor and US President, Jimmy Carter. With him as governor, the fight under the Gold Dome, will not be as steep. The requisite of signatures in both houses is only 51% to reach the Governor's desk, and we can count on Carter's signature. This is opposed to the 75% which will be needed to overturn a veto we can expect from Governor Deal. This is why Carter's election is crucial. "Take the high ground, facing the sunny side." Sun Tzu in The Art of War. Please get involved with his campaign and help him to victory however you are able at http://carterforgovernor.com/
MICHELLE NUNN
Our US Senator, Saxby Chambliss is retiring, which means one less conservative vote in the US Senate. We need to keep it that way with Obama's "Respect For Marriage Act" moving through congress. Surely, conservatives in this state will be vying to maintain that conservative vote and Michelle Nunn is our answer to defeating their efforts and bolstering the voice for equality, namely in the South. She now has a dedicated LGBT contingent which meets bi-weekly for phonebanking, telefundraising and canvassing. The next game night for her LGBT contingent is this Wednesday, May 14th, starting at 5:30PM-9PM at 1206 Spring St NW, Atlanta GA 30309. You may also contact Andy Ratto for further details @ andy@georgiavictory2014.com work: 404-445-6700 ext 133 or cell: 678-561-7248. You will be paid in pizza and snacks. Learn about more opportunities of getting involved at www.michellenunn.com ;
KYLE WILLIAMS
Ahead of Rep. Dr. Karla Drenner's and fellow progressive voices in the State House resolution to begin repeals of Georgia's Marriage Ban in 2015, Kyle Williams was the first to announce that he would "unequivocally and without hesitation" do so if elected to replace Jason Carter as Senator of Georgia's 42nd district. Regardless of what Drenner and what her caucus decides to do, we still need him and his intentions in the Senate. If elected, he would be the first and only "openly" gay male in the Georgia Senate, which means that when the conversation reaches that side of our government, we have someone who knows personally, not vicariously our struggles and can effectively advocate for them. How can you help him to victory? His headquarters, The High House at 1830 Sycamore St, Decatur, GA 30030 will be open from 2:30 through 7pm on Tuesday through Thursdays for:
- Phone invites to our Meet & Greet events
- Filling out neighbor-2-neighbor cards
- Helping with data entry (for someone who has a laptop you can bring)
- Helping with list cleanup in Kyle's contacts
- Organizing materials for Kyle and volunteers who are canvassing
Each Saturday - we'll have Walk With Kyle days where volunteers can come to High House at 10:30 and head out with Kyle to walk a neighborhood door-to-door. Learn about other ways you can help @ http://kylewilliams2014.com/
THE LONE WOLF:
You may always choose to work independently yet in tandem with this movement. Doing what you can do from where you are is what this all about. You don't have to wait for anyone's permission to get to work. You may start with forwarding this e-mail. His is a list of 10 other things you may do. http://loveunderfirega.blogspot.com/2013/01/what-can-i-do-in-name-of-love.html
If you have any related events you would like to add to our calendar, please e-mail dir.loveunderfire@aol.com details about it.
And now, I send you off with a weekly tune to pump up your spirits: "Your Love Keeps Lifting Me Higher" by Jackie Wilson: